Hey...
tomorrow I'm having sex for the first time with the only other person I've been intimate with since my first and only boyfriend. he's awesome and I trust him a lot.
the thing is, there's something I'm deeply insecure about. specifically my butt. due to a medical malpractice (bad injections) when I was a baby, I have visible damage/bruise on my right buttock. my first boyfriend used to always say I have a banging body and that it wasn't something I needed to be insecure about, so maybe it's not that big of a deal but it is to me.
I'm conflicted about telling/showing this guy or not. It absolutely is visible and obvious, especially in doggy style or any bend-over positions so it's not like he won't notice. but at the same time, I don't want to *seem* insecure. for the most part I'm a very conventionally attractive girl and I feel like it would make me seem weak. but I just don't want to overthink what he might think so I want to just show him and get it out of the way...
what would you do?
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